As with all my homilies, this is a representative text of the homily I gave this weekend. Unlike a couple weeks ago, I wasn’t as happy with this one at first, so there was some more “tweaking” from Mass to Mass. Thankfully, as a priest, I get to deliver the same homily a few times every weekend, so there’s an opportunity to improve as the weekend goes along.
When my sister and I were growing up we would always call to find out when Dad was coming home from work. Then when we heard the garage door open, we knew he was home and would go running to greet him. We were eagerly awaiting his return. I hope that’s the case for many of you here as well. That you children here greet your parents when they come home and show they you love them.
What’s funny or ironic is that it’s not that long before the tables are turned and the roles are reversed. At some point it’s not the children waiting for mom or dad to come home, but rather mom or dad staying up late at night for their child to come, eagerly awaiting their return.
There’s lots of things we wait for all the time. This past week many of you demonstrated with all the celebrations that you’d been eagerly waiting another Royals championship for 30 years…imagine being a Cubs fan!
See there’s lots of things, maybe some of you are eagerly awaiting the new Star Wars movie next month.
Then of course, there’s Advent, which starts in a few weeks, a whole season in which we will be eagerly awaiting the Birth of Jesus.
Today’s second reading also reminds us there is something else we should be eager for…our salvation.
Hmm. We should be eager for our salvation. Unlike everything else I’ve mentioned, it seems a little harder to be eager for our salvation. We know how to be eager for all of those other things I mentioned, but how can we possible express our eagerness for our salvation? What does that look like? How do we express that eagerness?
Let me start by clearing up two extremes it is not.
First of all it is not taking a sort of doomsday approach where we are so preoccupied, think we must spend 24/7 looked in a cell praying, afraid of the world to the point we become paralyzed. Nor is it the opposite end where we say, well, the life’s short, so I might as well live it up, do what I want, with whom I want, when I want and where I want. Just do whatever, live without any consequences, because, “it doesn’t really matter.”
No, our eager awaiting of God’s salvation is somewhere in the middle. What’s missing from both extremes is an understanding of responsibility.
If we leave everything behind to go hide in awaiting God’s second coming, we leave behind our responsibilities. That’s because if you want to eagerly await God’s salvation, we do so by attending to our responsibilities. If you take the other approach it’s a life where there are no worries and no responsibilities are met either.
See if we ask ourselves the question, “How am I eagerly awaiting God’s salvation?” We start to overthink it too much, come up with all sorts of different ideas. But the path is right in front of us.
So to the children here, do we help out in the house? Do we do our chores? What about our homework? How do we treat our classmates in school?
Parents – Do we help our children when they need help? Or would we rather attend to our own needs? Do we bother to pass on our faith to our children? Make sure they are taught values and responsibilities? Or would we rather just forget about it all, do something else fun.
And fulfilling our duties and obligations when it’s easy or convenient isn’t enough. We also have to do it when it’s difficult. Listen to today’s gospel, the rich men give from their surplus, when it’s easy. But the poor widow gives from her livelihood, when it’s tough. So we too must fulfill our responsibilities not only when it’s easy, but also when it’s tough.
So doing the chores when they are easy, or because there is some obvious reward, that’s not eagerly anticipating one’s salvation. Maybe after mom or dad asks you do to something, before going back to playing your video games, you can ask, “Is there anything else I can do to help?” So if you’ve taken the trash out, you ask, “Is there anything else I can do to help?” Maybe you have to set the table, it takes two minutes, maybe she lets you go have fun. Just ask.
Parents, do we click over to the next episode on Netflix, or do you go spend time with your child? Ask them how their day went? Help them with homework or whatever else it is they need help with, even when we’re tired and would rather have some “me time.”
Another example we have here with us today is our soccer team. After Friday’s loss, and everything that happened, you didn’t give in and quit. It was difficult yes, painful, yes. But you all rebounded and gave it your all to claim 3rd place.
Why does this all matter? How does fulfilling our responsibilities help us eagerly anticipate our salvation? Because it helps us keep a proper perspective.
We have to keep the big picture in mind as we fulfill these responsibilities. That is to say we don’t freak out when we fail, and give up. No we keep trying. Nor do we seek to fulfill the responsibilities just for themselves. So we don’t just do our homework because it will get us a good grade and into a better college. No, we do it because it makes us a better person. We don’t just play sports to win championships but because they teach values, teamwork and responsibility, they make us better people. We help our children because we love them and want what’s best for them.
Perspective reminds us that at the end of the day what matters most is not what grades we get, how many goals we score, how many games we’ve won, how much money we make or whether we got the promotion or not. We will be judged on our ability to receive God’s love and our love to share it with others.
Just as we eagerly await so many good things in our life, we too must strive to keep perspective by fulfilling our responsibilities, not only when it’s easy, but also when it’s tough. In that way we will truly, eagerly, await God’s salvation.